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Our Story

We met the old fashioned way: in a bar.

It was a Friday night and neither of us should have been there. I was out to dinner with a friend and, when a group of friends came to meet us, there wasn’t room for us at the restaurant – so we went next door to a dirty, dive karaoke bar. Pat was out with a group of friends for a bon voyage party for a guy from his office, but not after a great deal of vacillating about whether to even go out that night. It was the end of a long week, and he had already driven by Manchester twice that day – on the way to and from work, so driving the 20 minutes south again that day wasn’t particularly appealing, especially when the recliner was singing the siren’s song.

But there we both were, at a bar on a Friday night that neither of us had planned to be at. That’s the way it is with fate.

I talked to him first when he wandered within range of where I was sitting. (I won’t tell you the specifics; he doesn’t like my version of the story.) He was amused enough to join my friends and I, and accompanied us to the next bar…and the next, where he had me in hysterics with his air-band interpretation of Peter Cetera’s The Glory of Love (from the Karate Kid II), and the finer points of air-microphoning. I remember my cheeks and belly hurt from laughing so much.

Autumn in Kennebunkport, MEIn London. Sort of.Snowy peaks on Cannon MountainHe asked. I said yes.At the top of Mt. WashingtonKennebeachport in winterTelling secretsSnowy, Cool Ice CastlesSummer vacation with Steve and JoanneFenway Park with Dick and MooneenNight on the town in BostonAt "the Jeff," Washington, DC

The Festivities

Thank you for your flexibility and understanding of our need to change our wedding date. The earlier date allows the focus of the event to be on celebrating our wedding with the people we love and who love us. We sincerely hope that you will be able to join us on March 19.!

Travel & Accommodations

By Car

Manchester is an hour north of Boston via Route 93.

By Plane

We have a wonderful easy-in/easy-out airport (MHT).

By Train

You’re out of luck. You’ll get as far north as Boston – maybe Lowell if you’re lucky – and then you have to hitchhike.

Accommodations

There will be a block of rooms on hold at the Radisson Hotel – Downtown Manchester. The group rate is $139/night + tax.

700 Elm Street, Manchester, NH 03101
(603) 625-1000

Other accommodations in the vicinity:
Hilton Garden Inn, Downtown Manchester
101 S. Commercial Street, Manchester, NH 03101
(603) 669-2222

RSVP

The favor of a reply is requested on or before March 4, 2016

    Name(s):

    Joyfully AcceptRegretfully Decline
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    If you prefer, you can also email either Stephanie or Patrick with your reply.

    Patrick Parkinson410 (at) gmail.com
    Stephanie Stephmclaughlin (at) yahoo.com

    Wedding Party

    We’re thrilled to have some people who are very special to us help us plan, prep for and pull off the big day. Our brides-matrons and grooms-dudes have known us for a collective 272 years.

    Brides-matrons

    Katy Hayes Katy Hayes Matron of Honor

    Known Steph: 43 years
    Relationship: first cousin

    How she came into my life: Katy came into my life by birth; she’s my first cousin on the McLaughlin side. We grew up together and have been close for most of our lives.

    Core element of our friendship: we have a familial bond that goes back to when we were little kids. Katy is the closest thing I ever had to a sister. Katie Yerkes Katie Yerkes

    Known Steph: 13 years

    How she came into my life: I met Katie at some business function at some point in 2003ish. We knew and liked each other long before being co-founders of the Manchester Young Professionals Network.

    Core element of our friendship: we share a love of the profoundly ridiculous on top of the fact that we “get” each other on pretty much every level. Tiffany Fifer Tiffany Fifer

    Known Steph: 11 years

    How she came into my life: Tiff was one of my earliest and most dependable volunteers in the early days of the Manchester Young Professionals Network.

    Core element of our friendship: for many (many!) years, as single girls, we spent a ton of time and drank a ton of wine together. We lived across the street for a couple years, making dinners, movies, and other social events easy, even in pajamas. Plus, we have traveled to several states and at least two foreign countries together. Kristie Larose

    Known Steph: 44 years

    How she came into my life: probably peering over the top of a bassinet shortly after I was born; she’s my first cousin on the Doucet side. Our moms were tight and we grew up together, first locally when we were really little, and then commuting across the Connecticut River after her family moved to Vermont.

    Core element of our friendship: after spending a lot of time together as kids, we only see each other a couple times a year now. However, when we do, we can spend an entire day talking like no time has passed at all. Often, this takes place while floating in Rocky Pond. Jen Keefe Jen Keefe

    Known Steph: 4 years (Known Pat: 38 years)

    How she came into my life: via Patrick, as she’s his older sister.

    Core element of our friendship: as Pat’s big sister, Jenny came sailing into my life from beautiful Kennebunk, Maine. We’ve bonded over holiday dinners from Kennebunk to Concord, and on the sidelines of a variety of soccer, lacrosse and hockey games being played by her three boys.

    Grooms-dudes

    Ben Provencal Best Man

    Known Pat: 17 years

    How he came into my life: we were both teachers’ aides at the local junior high school right after college.

    Core element of our friendship: Ben is one of the funniest guys around and one of the most loyal friends you could ask for. He’s the guy you can always count on to back you up. Mike Cohen

    Known Pat: 35 years

    How he came into my life: he grew up down the street from me and we walked to school together almost every day through elementary school.

    Core element of our friendship: we were friends from when we were little kids. As such, we experienced our lives synchronously. Eddie Annal

    Known Pat: 25 years

    How he came into my life: we met in first year Latin class in 8th grade. Semper ubi sub ubi.

    Core element of our friendship: we bonded over our shared love of heavy metal and grunge music. The core of our friendship is all the time we spent head-banging in high school. He once made me a mix-tape of all the sustained screams from all the Alice in Chains albums spliced together! Wes Lavigne

    Known Pat: 15 years

    How he came into my life: we were working together for the Department of Health and Human Services shortly before we served on the Loudon (NH) Police Department together.

    Core element of our friendship: we bonded over having the exact same sense of humor and love of “inane banter.” He’s a buddy I can always count on a fun time with. Chris Keefe

    Known Pat: 26 years

    How he came into my life: he started dating my sister when I was 12 and she was 22.

    Core element of our friendship: Chris has been like an older brother to me, someone that I have always looked up to and have tried to emulate.

    Registry Information

    We are registered at Macy’s and Amazon.
    Both are searchable under either of our names with the event date.
    Macy's

    Registry ID: 6551657

    Amazon

    www.amazon.com/registry/wedding/9VK1YWFTULSN

    I’m giving you the same advice I gave your mother when she got married: Don’t go to bed with both of you angry. It gets stuck and it’s hard to undo it.
    Aunt Lu
    Stephanie's 95-year-old great aunt
    In all the years I’ve known Pat, Stephanie is the only girl he’s dated that I actually like. So I’m really glad he’s marrying her!

    Ben Provencal
    Grooms-dude
    I think one of the most exciting and intriguing things about true love is that it includes this important tenet: that two people are distinctly good for each other. And that’s what Stephanie and Patrick are; incredibly and wonderfully good for each other. They provoke and push each other to grow; they love and support each other unconditionally; and they laugh and giggle constantly. Being around them is being around two people who are completely in love and entirely good for each other.
    Katie Yerkes
    Friend of the Bride
    If you’d like to contribute a “testimonial” about the couple, or the upcoming event, for this site, please email it to StephMcLaughlin (at) yahoo.com.
    Stephanie
    One time, Stephanie was upset. Very upset. And that one time, Patrick looked at her, unfazed, and said, “You’re not angry, you’re hungry. Let’s get you fed.” Stephanie doesn’t know this, but that’s when I fell in love with Patrick Parkinson.
    Katie Yerkes
    Friend of the Bride

    Contact Us

    We are looking forward to seeing you. If you've got questions, please don't hesitate to contact us.

    Parkinson410 (at) gmail.com or Stephmclaughlin (at) yahoo.com

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